{"id":549,"date":"2023-02-11T17:52:18","date_gmt":"2023-02-11T17:52:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/?p=549"},"modified":"2023-02-20T07:51:35","modified_gmt":"2023-02-20T07:51:35","slug":"intj-dark-side","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/","title":{"rendered":"INTJ Dark Side: 9 Somber Aspects Of INTJ Personality"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201cNo great mind has ever existed without a touch of madness,\u201d said Aristotle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And really &#8211; INTJs are said to be brilliant but quirky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But as it goes, that quirkiness can bring out their dark side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this article, I\u2019ll give you an overview of all the negative qualities INTJs might express when feeling down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s dig into my complete guide to the INTJ dark side!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_63 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#The_Dark_Side_of_INTJ\" title=\"The Dark Side of INTJ\">The Dark Side of INTJ<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#They_can_be_heavily_introverted\" title=\"They can be heavily introverted\">They can be heavily introverted<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#Theyre_no_strangers_to_depression\" title=\"They\u2019re no strangers to depression\">They\u2019re no strangers to depression<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#They_struggle_with_procrastinating\" title=\"They struggle with procrastinating\">They struggle with procrastinating<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#Theyre_overthinking_practically_everything\" title=\"They\u2019re overthinking practically everything\">They\u2019re overthinking practically everything<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#They_indulge_in_hedonism\" title=\"They indulge in hedonism\">They indulge in hedonism<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#They_can_be_very_distrustful\" title=\"They can be very distrustful\">They can be very distrustful<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#They_can_appear_quite_ruthless\" title=\"They can appear quite ruthless\">They can appear quite ruthless<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#They_can_be_reckless\" title=\"They can be reckless\">They can be reckless<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#Theyre_very_defensive_of_their_opinions\" title=\"They\u2019re very defensive of their opinions&nbsp;\">They\u2019re very defensive of their opinions&nbsp;<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#How_to_Get_Out_of_the_Dark_Side_if_YouRe_INTJ\" title=\"How to Get Out of the Dark Side if You&#8217;Re INTJ\">How to Get Out of the Dark Side if You&#8217;Re INTJ<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#Discover_Your_Personality_Type\" title=\"Discover Your Personality Type\">Discover Your Personality Type<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#Confide_in_a_Friend\" title=\"Confide in a Friend\">Confide in a Friend<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#Try_Therapy\" title=\"Try Therapy\">Try Therapy<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/#To_Sum_Things_Up\" title=\"To Sum Things Up\">To Sum Things Up<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Dark_Side_of_INTJ\"><\/span>The Dark Side of INTJ<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s no such thing as an ideal personality type. For every asset, there\u2019s a weakness to match. Let\u2019s see what those are for an INTJ personality type.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"They_can_be_heavily_introverted\"><\/span>They can be heavily introverted<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Extroverts get energized by spending time around other people. But <a href=\"https:\/\/www.insider.com\/guides\/health\/mental-health\/introvert-vs-extrovert\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">introverts feel drained after socializing<\/a>. And among them, that\u2019s especially noticeable with INTJs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those with the INTJ personality type are known as lone wolves, not without reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs thrive when they\u2019re alone, so it\u2019s not surprising that they can distance themselves from other people for a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your INTJ friend is avoiding you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s probably true, but not for the reasons you might think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t take it personally. INTJs simply alienate themselves to recharge and find comfort in their own space.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And yes, that can take a long time sometimes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not communicating with someone close to you for some time can be a challenge to some, but not to INTJs. And it\u2019s not that they don\u2019t care just as much about that person. They\u2019re not trying to be lonely, simply left alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Theyre_no_strangers_to_depression\"><\/span>They\u2019re no strangers to depression<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"INTJ Loop &amp; Depression\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/lIOKHHKrklc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>There are several reasons why INTJs might struggle with depression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People with this personality type will try to rationalize everything, including their feelings. But more often than not, there\u2019s nothing logical in how we feel about certain things.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, if there\u2019s one thing that frustrates INTJs is the inability to understand something. This emotion becomes their everyday burden. That certainly doesn\u2019t help in dealing with depressive thoughts.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.giphy.com\/media\/fOVGTYyYtV6Ra\/giphy.webp\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Another reason why depression can be especially hard on INTJs is the fact that they prefer solitude. While being alone typically allows them to recharge, that isn\u2019t the case when dealing with depression.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During such times, everyone needs a person that will listen and provide support when needed. But INTJs already have a hard time bonding with people, as not everyone understands their need for solitude.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And given how mysterious and reserved INTJs are, it\u2019s typically hard for their friends to pick up the signs that something\u2019s wrong.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"They_struggle_with_procrastinating\"><\/span>They struggle with procrastinating<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs are known for their deeply-rooted ambition and drive. But while they\u2019re typically very efficient, they\u2019re also prone to procrastination. Paradoxical, I know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As you probably know, INTJs can get lost inside their head, forgetting for a while that the outside world exists. They can easily zone out for hours while their tasks pile up.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And you know when this usually happens?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When they\u2019re doing something they find <strong>boring<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s take school for example.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs generally love learning and expanding their cognitive functions. Of course, this personality trait drives them to constantly improve their knowledge. And that can sometimes lead to them being ahead of their class in a certain subject.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if an INTJ finds a subject boring, they\u2019ll find doing homework a waste of time. And, as you may suppose, it typically leads to leaving it until the last minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Theyre_overthinking_practically_everything\"><\/span>They\u2019re overthinking practically everything<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"INTJ Thoughts - Overthinking\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Rvcp9e-mNns?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You know another reason why an INTJ might be procrastinating? They\u2019re too busy overthinking other things.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs rely on logic to understand how the universe works. Those with this personality type will try to understand every single bit. Often, they\u2019ll unnecessarily focus on trivialities.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And they\u2019ll apply this method to every situation.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Overthinking is quite noticeable in social communication. INTJs lack finer social skills when communicating, which can often lead to misunderstanding. Now, INTJs react to that by overthinking what went wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.giphy.com\/media\/1c9B3aLkm9MYaXgoNA\/giphy.webp\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"They_indulge_in_hedonism\"><\/span>They indulge in hedonism<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Hedonism and procrastination go hand in hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It makes sense. We all tend to delay some important tasks by focusing on something more pleasurable.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And INTJs do this a lot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, this personality type is prone to sensory overindulgence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagine a small cafe packed with people. It\u2019s crowded, flashy, and loud. In a way, that atmosphere is overstimulating the sight, hearing, and sensory systems of an INTJ.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, what would an INTJ do in such a case?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probably get away from the place and do something enjoyable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When stressed, INTJs tend to become hedonistic. And that actually explains their tendency to obsess over certain things. They\u2019ll indulge in pleasures to distract themselves from upsetting situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"They_can_be_very_distrustful\"><\/span>They can be very distrustful<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs have issues with trust for many reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First, INTJs like to build knowledge on knowledge. This means they like to double-check and verify anything before accepting it as a fact. They won\u2019t trust blindly, whether it\u2019s a new project, a new idea, or a new person.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can tell them, for instance, that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/CUPCambridgeDictionary\/photos\/fun-fact-about-english-4-the-longest-english-word-without-a-true-vowel-a-e-i-o-o\/3666953879982683\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">rhythm is the longest English word<\/a> without a true vowel. An INTJ will probably check the glossary first before accepting what you said as a true fact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs can be very distrustful of people around them. They don\u2019t easily let people in out of fear of being hurt. So when they do, that means you\u2019re worthy of their trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"They_can_appear_quite_ruthless\"><\/span>They can appear quite ruthless<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"628\" src=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/two-men-talking.png\" alt=\"two men talking\" class=\"wp-image-558\" srcset=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/two-men-talking.png 1200w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/two-men-talking-300x157.png 300w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/two-men-talking-1024x536.png 1024w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/two-men-talking-768x402.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs aren\u2019t the ones to make small talk. They can go on for hours when talking about a subject that deeply interests them. But they also get drained pretty easily by meaningless chatting.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So don\u2019t expect pleasantries from them for no reason. While that can make them appear ruthless, INTJs just don\u2019t like showing unnecessarily strong enthusiasm about a simple chat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plus, let\u2019s not forget that INTJs don\u2019t typically express their emotions in casual conversation. A lack of emotional expression can possibly lead them to seem quite rude, especially to more extroverted individuals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"They_can_be_reckless\"><\/span>They can be reckless<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember how I said that INTJs could indulge in hedonism to get away from troubling situations?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, they can get carried away quite easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A rational planner like INTJ but reckless?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paradoxical yet possible.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This dark trait is somewhat caused by their overconfidence. An INTJ may think they have everything under control and that they can loosen up and relax. But in some cases, they overestimate their abilities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Theyre_very_defensive_of_their_opinions\"><\/span>They\u2019re very defensive of their opinions&nbsp;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs are loners with a hard shell yet a very soft interior. They\u2019re sensitive and afraid of letting other people in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those with this personality type will try hiding their feelings by building walls between themselves and others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019ll also defend their beliefs with the same passion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs base their knowledge on fact-checking and double-proofing, so they\u2019ll make sure you know they\u2019re right. It\u2019s not untypical for them to go above and beyond trying to defend their stance on something, no matter how trivial it might be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Get_Out_of_the_Dark_Side_if_YouRe_INTJ\"><\/span>How to Get Out of the Dark Side if You&#8217;Re INTJ<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you start experiencing any of these traits, don\u2019t worry. You\u2019re not the only one.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are a few things that can help any INTJ get out of their unhealthy dark side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Discover_Your_Personality_Type\"><\/span>Discover Your Personality Type<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"628\" src=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/personality-test.png\" alt=\"personality test\" class=\"wp-image-560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/personality-test.png 1200w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/personality-test-300x157.png 300w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/personality-test-1024x536.png 1024w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/personality-test-768x402.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Obviously, <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/am-i-an-intj\/\">you know you\u2019re INTJ<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But how much do you actually know about the INTJ character?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some things may be more obvious &#8211; like the fact that you\u2019re introverted. But there might be other things you don\u2019t realize are a reflection of your personality type.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Luckily, we have <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/intj-strengths-and-weaknesses\/\">a lot of articles about this personality type<\/a>, which should help you learn more about what it is to be an INTJ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These resources can give you a more in-depth analysis of certain traits, as well as how you can use them better in different situations. That also goes for dealing with these dark traits that can appear when you\u2019re not at your best.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Confide_in_a_Friend\"><\/span>Confide in a Friend<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I know. INTJs don\u2019t easily open up. But if you\u2019re dealing with some of these dark traits, a talk with someone you trust can help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While another INTJ might relate to what you\u2019re going through, you might not get the response you need from them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re close to an extrovert, it\u2019s better to confide in them. They will give you a different perspective on the subject, which can be of great help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Try_Therapy\"><\/span>Try Therapy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t let any prejudice about therapy stop you from trying it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone could use a conversation with a professional. It\u2019s their job to help you put some things into perspective and help you process them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"To_Sum_Things_Up\"><\/span>To Sum Things Up<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Like any other personality type, INTJs have their dark side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs may be extreme in certain traits, which can sometimes get the best of them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They enjoy solitude, but too much of it can make them depressed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re blunt and straightforward, but that can make them rude and defensive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, their strife to be great often leads to them overthinking and procrastinating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, these traits aren\u2019t a realistic representation of INTJs. Like any of us, people with this personality type may not always \u201cbe themselves.\u201d But when in their element, they\u2019re definitely nothing like this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Searching for wise words that will describe your INTJ personality? <\/strong>Check out our collection of the <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/intj-quotes\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"623\">best INTJ quotes<\/a> you will instantly relate to.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cNo great mind has ever existed without a touch of madness,\u201d said Aristotle. And really &#8211; INTJs are said to be brilliant but quirky. But as it goes, that quirkiness can bring out their dark side. In this article, I\u2019ll give you an overview of all the negative qualities INTJs might express when feeling down. &#8230; <a title=\"INTJ Dark Side: 9 Somber Aspects Of INTJ Personality\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-dark-side\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about INTJ Dark Side: 9 Somber Aspects Of INTJ Personality\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":555,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_sb_is_suggestion_mode":false,"_sb_show_suggestion_boards":false,"_sb_suggestion_history":"","_sb_update_block_changes":"","_is_real_time_mode":false,"_realtime_collaborators":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/549"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=549"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/549\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":638,"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/549\/revisions\/638"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/555"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=549"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=549"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=549"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}