are known as good listeners<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\nWe can sit and take in everything our INFJ partner might spill out, and, while we may not be able to fully comprehend the depth of what they\u2019re feeling, they fully appreciate how we have dedicated ourselves to them at that moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They further love how we can offer objective, rational advice which seems to lift them out of their emotional malaise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is highly valued by INFJs because they often become overwhelmed with emotion and do not know how to handle it in a healthy way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t be surprised if your INFJ partner sometimes does not show up, or makes excuses at the last minute either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They are trapped in a swirling internal world where they often feel like they just can\u2019t cope.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At the same time, this behavior is testing for the most understanding and patient of INTJs, and will inevitably put a strain on any INTJ INFJ relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s all a question of degree.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I would recommend avoiding a prolonged relationship with overly-emotional INFJs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
These types can often be seen to be at the root of their own emotional issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s almost as though they want<\/em> the turmoil because it\u2019s how they gain meaning<\/em> for their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\nIn a sense, it\u2019s a suffering that they put upon themselves, for reasons beyond the remit of this piece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Realize, then, that this is not a problem to be solved, but rather one to be avoided.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It can\u2019t be solved, by design.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Some people just are the way they are, and other personality types will be better predisposed to handle the hyper-emotionality of this subset of INFJ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As an INTJ personality type, you have other things to be doing and exploring than becoming mired in relationships that will inevitably drain you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You must make a decision on how to spend your valuable and limited time and energy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n