<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\nMost INTJ ESFP relationships are characterized by the usual problems of all romantic engagements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Differences between you and your ESFP partner could be compounded by the deep differences in how you look at the world and think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your early romantic relationship might have been initially entertaining as you developed your connection with the fun and free-spirited ESFP.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This can be especially intoxicating for the rigid INTJ personality type whose life often lacks a sense of spontaneity and excitement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, you may have found yourself glossing over some potential areas of incompatibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
ESFPs are known for their inability to engage in deep and meaningful intellectual conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They\u2019ve often been described as lacking an attention span and somewhat detached from reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Often low in self-awareness, ESFPs differ strongly in their ability to communicate in the style and substance of an INTJ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If there is an area of foreseeable difficulty in INTJ ESFP relationships, it\u2019s in the domain of communication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Often your conversations will break down because of certain stumbling blocks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Often your ESFP romantic partner will disagree with something but will be unable to articulate why<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThey will likely resort to an emotional rationale which will be difficult for you to accept, or indeed respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
On a much deeper level ESFPs have a different experience of the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We may criticize them for their lack of self-awareness, but they themselves struggle with this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n