{"id":209,"date":"2018-06-01T12:36:51","date_gmt":"2018-06-01T12:36:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/?p=209"},"modified":"2023-05-30T13:03:42","modified_gmt":"2023-05-30T13:03:42","slug":"intj-in-love-signs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/","title":{"rendered":"INTJ In Love Signs: 13 Unmistakable Signs An INTJ Is In Love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There are some people who make it nearly impossible to tell if they\u2019re in love. INTJs are not like those people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are plenty of INTJ in love signs to look out for if you\u2019re wondering if someone with our personality types has developed feelings for someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People don\u2019t show their affection in the same ways. If you don\u2019t know what another personality type is like, it\u2019s really hard to tell whether they\u2019re just being friendly, if they\u2019re not interested, or if they\u2019re really into you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why doing some research can go a long way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Knowing what to look for also helps you avoid making a fool of yourself if you\u2019re trying to get with an INTJ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These clear INTJ in love signs will help you tell for certain if they\u2019re crushing on someone hard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_63 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#1_They_include_you_in_future_plans\" title=\"1. They include you in future plans\">1. They include you in future plans<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#2_They_give_you_important_compliments\" title=\"2. They give you important compliments\">2. They give you important compliments<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#3_They_defend_you\" title=\"3. They defend you\">3. They defend you<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#4_They_initiate_contact\" title=\"4. They initiate contact\">4. They initiate contact<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#5_They_make_your_surroundings_better\" title=\"5. They make your surroundings better\">5. They make your surroundings better<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#6_Theyd_rather_be_with_you_than_alone\" title=\"6. They\u2019d rather be with you than alone\">6. They\u2019d rather be with you than alone<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#7_Theyll_try_to_help_you_achieve_your_goals\" title=\"7. They\u2019ll try to help you achieve your goals\">7. They\u2019ll try to help you achieve your goals<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#8_Theyll_take_the_initiative_to_get_to_know_you\" title=\"8. They\u2019ll take the initiative to get to know you\">8. They\u2019ll take the initiative to get to know you<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#9_They_care_about_the_things_you_do\" title=\"9. They care about the things you do\">9. They care about the things you do<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#10_They_try_to_help_you_with_anything_youre_doing\" title=\"10. They try to help you with anything you\u2019re doing\">10. They try to help you with anything you\u2019re doing<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#11_They_tend_to_be_wherever_you_are\" title=\"11. They tend to be wherever you are\">11. They tend to be wherever you are<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#12_They_dress_to_impress\" title=\"12. They dress to impress.\">12. They dress to impress.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/intj-in-love-signs\/#13_They_tell_you\" title=\"13. They tell you\">13. They tell you<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_They_include_you_in_future_plans\"><\/span>1. They include you in future plans<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Time is precious to us INTJs. We don\u2019t just plan ahead for no reason. But since we are major planners, being in those future plans is a major sign we\u2019re into you for real.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The more we set aside time in the future to be with you, the stronger our feelings are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019re basically proclaiming our love right then and there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_They_give_you_important_compliments\"><\/span>2. They give you important compliments<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>These aren\u2019t just your run-of-the-mill compliments. INTJs don\u2019t compliment your looks or give you googly eyes when you look good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, we focus on compliments that hold more meaning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We could potentially compliment your intelligence or your sense of humor. If we truly are in love, we dig deeper and make sure you feel that love through our compliments. It&#8217;s one of the major perks of being in an INTJ relationship &#8211; we can really make you feel special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_They_defend_you\"><\/span>3. They defend you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This is probably one of the best signs of <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/intj-enfp-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">an INTJ in love<\/a>. Truthfully, INTJs are one of the most loyal personality types.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You really won\u2019t find someone who has your back more than us. And that means we\u2019ll defend you to the ends of the earth if we feel affection for you in any way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And when we\u2019re in love, nobody can mess with you when we\u2019re around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_They_initiate_contact\"><\/span>4. They initiate contact<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This can be both physical or just talking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJ partners will take the initiative to text you first or even sit really close, so you\u2019re at least touching. And when we\u2019re in love, you can sit back and let us make the first moves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If there\u2019s a special INTJ in your life and you\u2019ve noticed they\u2019re usually the first to talk or touch you, they like you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_They_make_your_surroundings_better\"><\/span>5. They make your surroundings better<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We just are about your quality of life all around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This means an INTJ personality type will go out of their way to improve your surroundings. Whether that\u2019s sprucing up your office at work or cleaning your place when you\u2019re busy, it means the same thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They love you and want you to have the best quality of life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Theyd_rather_be_with_you_than_alone\"><\/span>6. They\u2019d rather be with you than alone<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>As an introverted personality type, this one is huge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not many introverts would rather be with people compared to being alone. That\u2019s just the way introverted people work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But with an INTJ personality type partner, <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/intj-istp-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">they\u2019d rather spend their free time with you<\/a> versus being alone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many INTJs consider this to be&nbsp;their primary <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/intj-love-language\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"1011\">love language<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we\u2019re in love, you become a part of us in a way. So being alone can be worse than spending that time with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Theyll_try_to_help_you_achieve_your_goals\"><\/span>7. They\u2019ll try to help you achieve your goals<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"536\" src=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/intj-in-love-signs-achieving-goals-1024x536.png\" alt=\"intj in love signs achieving goals\" class=\"wp-image-472\" srcset=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/intj-in-love-signs-achieving-goals-1024x536.png 1024w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/intj-in-love-signs-achieving-goals-300x157.png 300w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/intj-in-love-signs-achieving-goals-768x402.png 768w, https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/intj-in-love-signs-achieving-goals.png 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a perfect sign that an INTJ is into you if you\u2019re not already sure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/finding-new-home\/202209\/how-you-and-your-partner-can-help-each-other-achieve-goals\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/finding-new-home\/202209\/how-you-and-your-partner-can-help-each-other-achieve-goals\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">They\u2019ll assist in your goals and dreams<\/a>. Those meaningful things in your life become meaningful to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pay attention to whether or not they\u2019re supporting those major parts of your life, and you\u2019ll know how they feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Theyll_take_the_initiative_to_get_to_know_you\"><\/span>8. They\u2019ll take the initiative to get to know you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re the ones asking all the questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs want to make sure you both have potential together. For this reason, they\u2019ll want to know everything they can about you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll find that they\u2019ll ask so many questions you may feel as though it\u2019s more of an interview than it is a date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a good thing and means they like you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_They_care_about_the_things_you_do\"><\/span>9. They care about the things you do<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically, an INTJ will learn about issues that are important to you and make an effort to care about them too. They may often go out of their way to help you with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When INTJs care, they care deeply. This means if you have any cause you feel strongly about, they\u2019ll become a part of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s another way to show their support and how much they like and even love you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_They_try_to_help_you_with_anything_youre_doing\"><\/span>10. They try to help you with anything you\u2019re doing<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This is less about your goals and dreams and more about your everyday life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs tend to take over projects so they can be done correctly \u2013 in their mind. And if an <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/intj-enfj-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">INTJ is into you<\/a>, they\u2019ll want only the best for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That means they might show up and help you clean up or build that bookshelf you\u2019ve been struggling with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s all in an effort to show how much they care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_They_tend_to_be_wherever_you_are\"><\/span>11. They tend to be wherever you are<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Most INTJs will deny they do this, but we totally do. You know an INTJ is in love if they\u2019re \u201crandomly\u201d showing up in places when they probably know you are there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They just want to spend more time with you and even get a look at you in your natural environment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"12_They_dress_to_impress\"><\/span>12. They dress to impress.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs aren\u2019t super materialistic people by nature. We just don\u2019t really mind going natural most of the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, if an INTJ loves you, they\u2019ll dress up and do their makeup and make an effort to impress you in any way they can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s all about catching your eye and making you see them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"13_They_tell_you\"><\/span>13. They tell you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The great thing about <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/intj-infj-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">INTJs in love<\/a> is that they don\u2019t try to hide it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re very open about their feelings, and if they\u2019re certain about how they feel for you, it\u2019ll be made very obvious to the point that they\u2019ll probably just come out and tell you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>INTJs may seem mysterious, <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/why-intjs-are-considered-weird\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"533\">weird<\/a>, cold, and calculating, but, in fact, they\u2019re pretty easy to read if you know what to look for. These INTJ in love signs will help you figure out what they\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Specifically interested in an INTJ woman?<\/strong> Then be sure to check <a href=\"https:\/\/intjsecrets.com\/blog\/intj-female-dating\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"195\">our INTJ female dating tips article <\/a>to learn all the details about dating these rare creatures!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are some people who make it nearly impossible to tell if they\u2019re in love. INTJs are not like those people. There are plenty of INTJ in love signs to look out for if you\u2019re wondering if someone with our personality types has developed feelings for someone. 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