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3 Factors Affecting Your INTJ ISFJ Relationship

Is this one of the worst MBTI personality matches?

Many think so.

But let me be clear:

Every relationship can work.

Yet still, no smoke without fire.

Let’s look at some of the key factors that could influence your INTJ ISFJ relationship.

Let’s get one thing straight.

All relationships are rocky from time to time.

It’s a question of degree.

But what is it in particular that might cause tension in this pairing?

Let’s look at some of the reasons why your INTJ INFP relationship might struggle.

Sensitive INFJ.

Emotionless INTJ.

Sounds like a match made in heaven, right?

There is more to this than meets the eye, however.

Why is this known as a curiously suitable personality pairing?

Let’s look at some of the dynamics at play in an INTJ INFJ relationship.

You might be wondering:

Is INTJ ESTP relationship even possible?

Are the differences too large to overcome?

Let me explain my understanding of this unique dynamic.

And how, if the conditions are right, this could be an amazing relationship pairing.

But also, at the same time, how it could be one worth avoiding.

Let’s be honest:

Chemistry is possible between all personality types.

Satisfied with this answer?

No?

Don’t worry, I didn’t think so.

So you might be wondering: should I try to make things work with that ESTJ at work?

A word of warning: be careful with ESFJs.

Extreme?

Perhaps. But this is the view of countless INTJs in their experiences with ESFJs.

Whether in relationships or at work, ESFJs are known for their deep incompatibility with INTJs.

But why?

INTJs and ESFJs have deeply different ways of looking at the world and their behavior is a function of this reality.

But let’s look at some of the important points regarding INTJ ESFJ relationships to see if we can gain a better understanding.